Asked: Bestfriends with benefits, I need help?
Alright, I'll try my best to explain this, it's really confusing and complicated so please try your best to understand me, I will greatly appreciate any advice or constructive criticism. So I have this best-friend, she's literally the one person I can trust with anything, we have been through a lot of **** together, and we've already done the most ****** up **** to each other that we could've possibly done and we've hurt eachother multiple times and gotten over it. We can never stay mad at eachother or hate eachother. Iv'e always had feelings for her for the past almost 2 years that Iv'e known her. I know love is a very strong word, but I really have fallen for her. She loves the fact that I like her and that im so curious about this and she thinks its cute, she's said that before. It's obvious she has feelings for me…all of our friends think we're already together or have a thing or tell us to go out already. My feelings for her are probably way stronger than hers are for me. She's told me that she likes me in a differant way than she's liked anyone else…like for example she said some of things I do or say that would normally hurt her if one of her ex boyfriends would've said it, don't phase her. She's told me that she honestly can see us together in the future but not to get my hopes up. Recently she told me she was down to hookup lowkey but still be bestfriends and nothing more. We don't have sex, we hookup though…she's afraid if we have sex that she'll stop caring about me or feel different about me, and I respect that. We've both agreed that if we did start dating at some point, if anything bad happened and we broke up..we'd still be friends, cause of how close we are. I know transitioning from the "friend zone" to anything more is DIFFICULT and RISKY and COMPLICATED, but i'm willing to go through all that for the smallest chance to see if we honestly are meant to be together. She says she's not ready to get into a relationship with anyone right now and I respect that too..I just want it to be a strong possibility in the future and I don't wanna do anything that could ruin her giving me a chance to treat her like she deserves to be treated. I messed up by telling her multiple times how strongly I feel for her, and how no matter what I'll always be waiting for her and that I'd drop anyone or anything for her. Even though that's true, In the back of her head, she knows that i'll -always- be ready and waiting for her, I feel like that kinda ***** up her mindset of giving me a chance. I care about this girl so much, I get these weird good vibes when I'm around her and I feel a sense of happiness around her that I don't feel from anyone or anything else. She deffinatley plays hard to get, and I kinda wanna start playing hard to get too..but like…she knows I'm always available and we're best friends she knows me too well…what can I do that could possibly help out my situation of eventually having a chance to be more than just "best friends with benefits" with my best friend/girl of my dreams?
Asked: What does my dream mean? Simple!!!!! I DON’T NEED AN EXPERT TO ANSWER THIS I DON’T THINK?
There is a guy at my school who has a huge crush on me and asked me out. Over the year, I have grown to like him too. He even said he wanted to protect me from this other guy who wants to hurt me. Just last night I dreamed that my whole class was sleeping on a beach. I was right by the water and a rip tide pulled me in and I screamed for help! He jumped in and rescued me right away. What does this mean? Should I also tell him that I have had a dream about him or is that weird?
Asked: What does this love dream mean?
Help! I had this dream about a guy who i used to like, but now hate becase he is FREAKING ANNOYING!!! but anyways, in my dream we kissed and then i slapped his cheek. i dont know what this dream means, do you guys have any ideas?
Asked: Meaning to the lyrics of boulevard of broken dreams?
I need help understanding these lyrics for an assignment?Please help me analyze the song. Thanks
Asked: My dream, what does it mean ?
So last night I had this dream where I went to Hogwarts, but I stayed outside one stormy night in a tree house and this other guy was just outside so he came on with me, ( we where friends but I don't remember his name) and shortly after it stops storming so we sneak back into my dorm and he keeps going till his (don't ask why but it was set up like a normal collage) in the morning I find out we only have one more day till the end of term , so I start scrambling to pack my things up and I'm going somewhere and the guy from the tree house comes and starts making out with me and he's in love with me, and by the next day I've fallen in love with him, but everybody has to leave campus or file an extension for a few more days, so I file an extension until the upcoming school formal (dance) and his mom who is also my room mates mom decided that they have to go home but she's gonna bring him back up after unpacking his sister so he can stay with me longer, so they do that and somehow we get to this party at school and we all close and hugging all over each other and stuff when we walk into this one room where one of our friends is dead, only he wasn't really dead, he was right behind us but he convinced everybody he was dead, then he walked in the room behind us and was like " oh , Crap guys don't tell anybody " but it was too late they all walked in behind him and started yelling then left and for some reason my boyfriend got up next to our dead friend to take a picture , so I did too, cause I was being stupid , then we last that room and there where announcements being made and somehow even though I didn't apply I got accepted into Harvard, but my bf didn't so they had some extra invitations to get in and they just threw them and he caught one, so we both where going, and we went back to my dorm which was currently supposed to be just me, and we walked in and my sister was there in the other bed with like four animals at her feet and I started freaking out asking her why
Asked: Did I do right? Mixed emotions?
Shes 18 and I'm 22, known each other for 10 months and texted daily for 6-7 months, each send about 5-10 msgs a day. We teased each other lots and clicked really well. We see each other for soccer training a few times a month. Before she left for uni out of state, I bought flowers and told her I like her. Ive never felt this way for a girl in years, but she replied she really likes me as a friend and soccer buddy. She hopes that things will be like the way they were before. I thanked her for the times and said I couldn't be friends. (Because I've had feelings for her the day I saw her, shes my dream girl I never though I'd meet, I've never saw her just as a friend) but wish her well. Since then, we haven't talked in 3 months.
She texted me during Xmas and asked how I was doing, she was back in town. After briefly running into her (something I wanted to avoid, she called my name as I didnt see her), I asked why she contacted me after all this time. She said she thought that a few months would be good enough and that we'll always be friends. I told her I love her and I cant settle as friends, if I settle for less it meant I never really liked her that much in the first place. I wished her well as the break ended.
What do you guys/girls think, did I do right? I cant be friends with someone I love, Id keep contact once a year to see how she is… but to know that she'll be with someone that isnt me will drive me nuts. I still think of her, despite talking to new girls… and when I play my favorite sport, I think of her and the fun we had… help please? I dont want to completely lose her.. but I need to move on, usually I would just peace it, but I dont want her out of my life, contradicting i know..
Asked: I had a dream that I had a multi racial baby… Ideas?
If you are sensitive don't read this.
I had a dream a few nights ago that I had a black baby. Both my husband and myself are white. I would have no interest in other races. In this dream I was holding this black baby I just had and smiled because I felt sorry for this baby I had to give up for adoption because it was black. My husband and I are not trying for more kids. He got a Vas so no more for us. But what could that dream mean?
Asked: i am afraid to be sweet because i think he will think i am stupid?
i love my boyfriend and we say 'i love you' when we stop texting each other…
i want to tell him this: (as if i am saying this to my boyfriend)
i love you so much, more than you will ever know. I really want to tell you but i am afraid. afraid that you will think i'm crazy. afraid that you will think i am too weird. I don't want you to ever leave me. If i am brave enough to show you this, please don't think i am weird. I think about you every second of everyday. when i lie in bed at night i can never fall asleep because i am so excited about seeing you the next day. I always hope so crazy much that i will dream of you, and every night before i fall asleep, i say. "i love you Jackson…" and hope you could be doing the same for me. You are the best boyfriend i ever had and i had such a huge crush on you. Once i told you that i liked you it was terrifying. You stopped talking to me and we never high-fived anymore, or joked around… i was heartbroken. Then that awesome best friday ever, you asked me out! i was so scared that whole day cause everytime you had a chance but you didn't ask, i just knew that you weren't gonna ask me. i dont act like it but whenever i see you i just want to hug you forever and talk with you the whole time. you are so amazing to me and i miss you as soon as you leave. i get so sad when you don't come to school and it ruins my whole day. you are literally the most attractive guy in the school! i tell that to everyone when they ask who i am dating, "Jackson, really tall, blonde and the most attractive guy in our entire school." then they look at me like im crazy which i am about you! i really really love you and everything you do i love and everything about you i love! when i have free time i doodle your name all over my papers! you are also very intemidating to text, i feel like i say something stupid all the time! and you rarely make a smiley face so i feel like i am talking to an emotionless robot . i feel like everything i text you, you find stupid! but i get confused because at school you act like i am the cool one! mya tells me stuff and you have no idea how happy it makes me, she told me that you said you loved me and that you missed me! that made my day perfect. when you dont come to school it totally ruins my day and i am really quite all day. then when you are there, all my friends want to choke me to death because of how crazy happy i am later! And just to clear this up, that friday when i was dispersed to your 6th period class and you said to me, "i cant really hug you when your sitting down" i was so happy and just so… in awe that you wanted to hug me that i was stupid and didnt stand up to hug you. WORST THING IVE EVER DONE! maybe not the worst but it was definetly a huge regret. i love hugging you and after you hug me then leave, my friends let me know that you are gone and i scream, "HE HUGGED ME!!!!" you must think i am crazy now :p. i really want to tell you things like that i miss you as soon as you leave class and that i love you a lot and that i am so lucky and happy that i am your girlfriend. and when people ask me who i am dating and i say you i say your name all dreamily.i love you.
but i think that if i tell him it will scare him! we have been dating since March 15th (1 1/2 months) and he asked me out in person. he told my bff that he loves me and that he missed me when he had to leave for a week. i wanted to hug him and squeeze him the day he came back from his trip because i missed him so much but it seems like it would embarass him…
i want to call him baby, sweetheart, and cute nicknames. i want to tell him i love him constantly. i want to tell him that he means the world to me. but i just… cant…
how do i get the courage to do it? am i just being to stupid, and i should just say it to him…?
thank you so so so much
Asked: Dreaming of the date of your own death?
My fiance woke up this morning and told me he had a terrific dream.
He was a demon-hunter and he got called to go to a church to make an exorcism, and there was a girl in there who was exorcised. She threw a gravestone to him and it said his name along with a date. The date was August 13, 2028.
I'm a very spiritual person and I've had premonitory dreams since I was little, and he asked me if I think he would die that day. I told him not to worry because it could mean something else. I've told him this because I didn't want him to worry, now it's me who is really worried about it and scared…
What do you think it means?? Serious answers only please.
Asked: I have this scary dream often what does it mean?
So i don't know if that's scary to you but when i dream it and wake up in sweat i can't sleep anymore and im scared that im gonna dream it again so its like one old woman is telling some story to me and then she wants to scream at me like you know the scary pop up videos when the monster pic screams at you and i say "no,no,no,don't scream" and then she screams like that and her face is like a demon face .. and the dream ends and then im scared and terrified .. what does it mean because when i dream it i can't sleep because of it.